OK I am now addicted to taking photos of my gf… thank u @simonsarris
4 years ago, @anapatricia1247 ghosted me after the first time we hung out
We’re still together
Really glad I wasn’t discouraging by a mixed signal
not to be a dick, but it’s almost always obvious when a person is only half heartedly entering a relationship. But obsession makes the other person blind and deaf.
I realized something 2 years ago that has really simplified my life: a mixed signal is a no. If someone isn’t sure about you, it doesn’t matter why. It doesn’t matter how great you think you’d be together or how close you feel to some perfect future. Just let it go. If someone wants you they will make it abundantly clear.
Ofc it’ll be a mixed signal, there are TONS of reasons someone may still signal that they want you:
1) they may also WANT to like you bc they also agree it would be great! But it doesn’t feel right to them for reasons they may not even understand at the time. Eventually they talk themselves into it, or you talk them into it, just like the guy in the comic, but the lack of feeling never resolves itself. is long and drawn out and ends poorly.
2) they may just be stringing you along for the validation
3) some other third thing
This isn’t just about love btw. It’s also about job opportunities, friendships, whatever. Obsessing over how you got SO close to what you wanted will not help you. Let it go, work on yourself as much as you can, and wait for the enthusiastic, simple yes
Also don’t ever talk yourself into wanting something. It should be an enthusiastic, simple yes from you too.
Government spending haters should have way less contempt for government spending and way more contempt for people who steal from the government
Check out this sophisticated and bizarre fake article. Full of totally AI hallucinated sources with fake links to unrelated stuff.
Tbh it almost got me had I not clicked on the source links
It's got nice graphs where you can download data and even embed one of their visuals in your site lol
thewar.live/blog/the-2026-ir…
Replying to @disclosetv
War games estimated ~500 U.S. deaths from a bombing campaign/Iranian retaliation.
Unbelievable how unrealistic American expectations are for a conflict with a supposedly near-peer adversary.
thewar.live/blog/the-2026-ir…
Who else is a token flipper?
I buy tokens from big AI lab, add marginal value, then sell output tokens to someone else
I'm obsessed with the tension between:
the insane value of ripping 100% capacity effort
vs
increasing the the value of your <10% capacity
You should be able to tip phone customer support ppl
It would fix all the incentives and make the experience so much better






















