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More women are complaining about how modern men are shying away from relationships because they don’t want to commit and are offering things like sneaky links, FWB, side ngga/chic relationships, etc., but nobody wants to admit that the reason for this is the commercialisation of relationships among both parties (men and women). I will explain. Modern dating feels like a humiliating ritual. A punishment, in fact. Right now, the worst thing you can be as a man is a boyfriend. Zero benefits whatsoever. And I particularly find it interesting that men and women don’t want to admit that what they are practising is prostitution and its patronage, finessed as dating. I have said it before: I find prostitution and prostitutes fascinating. It is an art. Some women saw how valuable the sex market is and decided that, why should I give up this thing called sex to you when there are men willing to pay and go the extra mile to get it? In this trade, it is the prostitutes who benefit the most. But because of men’s ego, they think they are the biggest winners in the transaction. A prostitute will take your money, have sex with you, and still get pleasure from it. You are giving two things, and she’s taking both. An art. Let me not digress further: The problem with modern relationships is that nobody wants to be seen as a prostitute or someone who patronises them, so men and women would rather live in deceit than admit that the transactional bullshit they are both indulging in is dating. * “If you can’t press money, clear.” * “If you are giving a man your body, he should be paying your bills and other stuff.” * “I don’t even mind the arrangement; my question is, what am I getting from it? How much is entering my account?😂” * “Una no fit finish, na me never guide.” * “I don’t do hookups, but if I’m going, you’ll give me thanks for coming.” These are prostitution terminologies that are commonly used in modern dating. You can’t link up with your “girlfriend” when you are broke because you don’t want her to “see you finish.” You won’t sleep with your boyfriend unless he spends money on you during that period. Heck, once you start a talking stage, you only take them seriously when they start splurging on you. What most of you are doing and disguising as a relationship is “money for hand, back for ground,” and there’s a name for it — prostitution. But instead of being honest with ourselves, instead of owning up to the tag, we’d rather deceive ourselves that what we are doing here is dating. The women don’t want to be called prostitutes. The men don’t want to be seen as losers who patronise prostitutes. But both of them are practising the very labels they are trying to avoid. You who are judging your guy for patronising babes at Farm City, will your relationship survive for two months if you go to zero today? You met a babe last week, sent her money randomly that same week, and she started giving you serious attention. What do you think both of you are doing?😉 The girl you bought a dress for, paid for her hair, nails, and Uber before she agreed to link up with you for a first date, what do you think both of you are doing? 😉 Your talking stage that came to your house and you credited 50k after you both had sex, what do you think the term for that is? What exactly does a “thanks for coming” credit alert mean?😉 A social experiment: Tell your babe that you are not financially buoyant four times in a row this month when she asks you for money, then initiate sex and see her facial reaction. A lot of your so-called relationships will end today if you tell your babe NO three times. But yeah, you don’t patronise prostitutes. Modern relationships are just finessed prostitution. You are better off being single than indulging in dating right now, and this is exactly why it seems like everyone, especially men, has commitment issues. We just don’t like to tell ourselves the truth, but as always, I will tell you as it is.