Esther T retweeted
365 days down🫠
And now, the 24th chapter of my life has begun🥹
Grateful for the gift of life🥰🙏
Esther T retweeted
Everyone’s being purposely obtuse. If I pay you for soft glam and you later find out I got married… so??? I paid for what you did. If I now come to you complaining that the makeup didn’t last then that’s on me!
So you think paying bills is easy? If the man doesn’t pay the bills, all those activities the lady does would exist.
In some home this is how it works.
HUSBAND
Works outside the home
Pays the bills
Sleeps
WIFE
Works outside the home
Cooks dinner
Plans meals
Grocery shops
Puts groceries away
Packs lunches
Washes dishes
Cleans the kitchen
Sweeps and mops
Vacuums
Dusts
Cleans bathrooms
Cleans bedrooms
Changes sheets and makes beds
Picks up clutter
Takes out trash
Does laundry
Folds and puts away clothes
Buys household supplies and toiletries
Makes bottles
Feeds and burps the baby
Changes diapers
Bathes the children
Dresses the children
Does their hair
Brushes their teeth
Handles bedtime routines
Gets up with them at night
Comforts them when they cry
Gets them ready in the morning
Makes breakfast
Packs school/daycare bags
Handles drop-offs and pickups
Helps with homework
Reads and plays with them
Supervises the children
Handles discipline
Teaches manners and life skills
Handles tantrums/meltdowns
Keeps track of school events
Signs school paperwork
Communicates with teachers/daycare
Attends school meetings
Schedules doctor/dentist appointments
Takes children to appointments
Keeps track of medications
Cares for sick children
Shops for clothes and shoes
Keeps track of clothing sizes
Buys diapers, wipes and formula
Preps birthdays and holidays
Buys gifts
Plans family activities
Handles extracurricular activities
Provides emotional support
Gives affection and reassurance
Keeps track of everyone's schedules
Remembers what everyone needs
Handles the household mental load
Still expected to be a wife/partner
And they jump up and down when they give them ring too o



















