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Valid as always.
Death sentence photoshoot 🔥🔥🔥
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And they’re doing all this from Nigeria where the maternal mortality statistics are abysmal. They’re not even campaigning that pregnancy SHOULDN’T have to be a death sentence for ANY woman. This is where they have decided to pour their energy. God forbid.
quite a weird hill to die on. A woman says pregnancy ‘felt like a death sentence’ to her and people are arguing that it’s not the same as a death sentence. did you take any english/literature courses in school? were you not taught figures of speech or literary devices?
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Nigerian men are so special. Fight for attention during postpartum, fight women for describing their own pregnancy experiences, fight widows for making decisions about burying their deceased husbands. Ike gwuru.
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Why does the fight over "pregnancy is a death sentence" refuse to end? (2/2) Because the dead do not quote-tweet. Each survivor is a witness for the defence, and the women who did not make it cannot testify. A grandmother with every birth behind her is the defence's favourite witness. Any neighbour who died in her own second labour left no story to tell. Surviving is a lower bar than it sounds. Doctors have a name for the woman who nearly died but survived, the maternal near miss. Hospital studies in Nigeria have counted between two and ten of them for every woman who died. Not all of them heal. Some lose the womb. Across Nigerian teaching hospitals, emergency removal of the womb runs at around two to six in every thousand deliveries, most often to stop bleeding that would not stop. Others leave with a heart that failed late in pregnancy or soon after, a condition Nigeria records at the highest rate in the world, and not every heart recovers. In one Zaria hospital, half the women put on dialysis for kidney failure after childbirth were still dialysis-dependent at discharge and could not afford more. Rarer still, surgeons in Kano have reported a new mother who lost parts of both legs to gangrene. Each year about 12,000 women leave labour with a fistula, a hole between the birth canal and the bladder or rectum left by labour that went on too long, and leak urine or faeces until it is repaired. In one Sokoto study, more than half of the women with fistula also had foot drop, nerve damage from the same labour that leaves a foot dragging. As recently as 2017, repairs fell about 7,000 a year short of new cases. Every one of these women goes into the record as a woman who lived. The danger is unevenly shared. Just 172 local government areas, about one in five in the country, account for 55 per cent of maternal deaths. In Lagos, 86 per cent of births take place in a health facility. In Kebbi, fewer than one in ten do. A woman in Lagos and a woman in Kebbi are describing two different countries, and each is telling the truth about hers. Since 2000 the world has cut maternal deaths by 40 per cent. Nigeria's figures improved by 13 per cent. The federal government proposed about 4 per cent of this year's budget for health, against the 15 per cent Nigeria signed up to in 2001. That shortfall is one reason the hospital costs more than families have. Where is the other 11 per cent? I gave the word "sentence" one paragraph in part one. Every year the timeline gives it a week, and that week spares the government that question. Those gaps are the verdict, and the first defendant is the federal government. Years before any timeline fought over these words, a Nigerian state government vowed that pregnancy would no longer be a death sentence for its women. A government does not promise to end something that does not exist. The phrase was a confession before it was ever a tweet. 🐝🐆
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All this because 1 woman out of millions of women in Nigeria described HER OWN pregnancy experience as “felt like a death sentence”. Reducing 8 dead women in your data report to ONLY.
Only 8 in 1000 women die from childbirth in Nigeria btw. There's a very long gap between 0.8% and 20%. PREGNANCY IS NOT A DEATH SENTENCE!
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The “FOR HER” is even the most important part of this conversation.
It’s baffling when men, especially male doctors, invalidate women’s pregnancy experiences. You’ve witnessed how quickly things can turn life-threatening. Pregnancy is no easy feat. If a woman says it felt like a death sentence FOR HER, then it was.
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Yea, it gets worse. Whatever man…..
Replying to @Oreoluwapelumi3
Cuz we’re the ones getting manipulated and deceived into over exerting ourselves cuz a woman is over exaggerating her pregnancy. We’ll be the ones to tolerate your ineptitude and all, you don’t want us to know it’s not serious so we would keep humiliating ourselves for yall.
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Her submission - “pregnancy felt like a death sentence FOR ME” Your submission - “calling it a death sentence is an exaggeration that undermines….” Do you see the foolish point you’re trying to mansplain?
One insight I’ve reached is that many women act as though language lacks weight, a choice made deliberately to obscure clarity. Yes, men cannot give birth, yet calling it a death sentence is an exaggeration that unfortunately undermines the point you aim to convey.
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There was a country.
President Tinubu appoints Chief of Staff Femi Gbajabiamila head of Ebola task force, approves N10 billion emergency fund.
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A successful Spurs and Celtics hate watch.
my NBA hatewatch list this season 🏀: Spurs Celtics Lakers
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My MVP 🤌🏽
SGA starred in OKC's season opener! ⛈️ 32 PTS (game-high) ⛈️ 6 REB ⛈️ 4 AST ⛈️ 3 STL (game-high) ⛈️ 3 BLK ⛈️ 3 3PM The Thunder pick up the road win 👏
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Can’t even laugh too hard at the Tatum slander because the TL already getting ready to earn from my MVP slander in a few hours.
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Celtics had this game for a minute and Detroit decided the last quarter was going to be theirs.
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The most stupid thing I saw today.
Una dey give NBA influencing gig to people who don’t know anything about NBA
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Tatum will have to settle for always sharing the spotlight 😭
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I saw it few minutes in. PG13 letting you all know all those trades still worth it.
Paul letting you all know he still got it 😂
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Paul letting you all know he still got it 😂
Celtics vs Pistons They’re all charged up.
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Celtics vs Pistons They’re all charged up.
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my NBA hatewatch list this season 🏀: Spurs Celtics Lakers
my NBA hatewatch list this season 🏀: Knicks Celtics OKC Pistons DROP YOURS
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Who ever it is that handled the influencer gig for NBA, I want you to know you’re very silly. Rubbish!
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