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Accidental Librarian 𝕏 retweeted
So, I visited Hafsat yesterday in Karu Local Government, Nasarawa State. I saw the place she lives, the baby, and their condition. For Hafsat, she basically doesn’t have anything. The mattress, TV, and hot plate she uses belong to her ex-husband, and he might come and take them anytime soon. As for the baby, she doesn’t even have a single sock. She only has a few pairs of clothes. I took Hafsat to the market and shopped for her using our crowdfunding balance and from what some people sent directly to give her. Firstly, for Hafsat, I got her a Redmi Android phone, then foodstuff (rice, macaroni, spaghetti, milk, Milo, oil, red oil, spices, sugar, noodles, cereals, a frying pan, detergents, semo, and I even added Maltina and biscuits) and other stuff. For the baby, we got almost everything a baby needs, some of which I don’t even know the names of. We got wipes, diapers, milk, powder, soap, body wash, oil, pants, a mini rechargeable fan, a towel, and some other things. For the record, I spent three hundred and fifty thousand, five hundred. There was no need to get Hafsat an inhaler for her asthma since she already has one; they gave it to her at the hospital when she was admitted last week. As for the baby, there will be a need to buy a few drugs for her because she has catarrh and a fever. I’d also sent her some money so she can fill up her gas and other things. I have also received messages from a few people willing to give her clothes, and clothes for the baby too. Someone has already given some. Like I mentioned in the post below, Hafsat still needs a job—as a cook, a salesgirl, or a babysitter, or even something else to sustain herself. The idea of her starting a business is a good one, but her location isn’t favorable for business, it’s far too remote. If it's about school, it'd really be good if she can get a sponsor, or if we can all come together and sponsor her school and her feeding until she's done. She has always liked to go to nursing school. It'd be fantastic if she can get a scholarship. Two people have reached out to me, willing to help her get her back on her fit, but even with that, hafsat will still need more help. For now, that's it, but her rents expires in January which is just 3 months away, and the food and baby stuff will only last them for few months. Any willing to help can please check the below post for my account details, or kindly send me a dm. Hatsat sends bunch of gratitude to everyone, she prays that may Allah be pleased with y'all and may he returns what you have given to her in thousand folds. Her mom sends her prayers too, we spoke but couldn't see because the step father was around and he wouldn't allow her come out of the house, so we only called, and thats even when he wasn't around.
Please retweet. Her name is Hafsat, she lived with her mom, and her stepdad, who’s, from what I’ve known so far, is a very complicated and difficult person. He normally beats her, not only her, his own children too, and the funny thing is they all not kids, for Hafsat, she’s 28yrs, for the rest, one is even 30+. He’s a kind of father that doesn’t play with his kids at all, doesn’t talk to neighbors or anyone, he’s very very tough, even on Hafsat’s mother, his only wife. One day, Hafsat did something to him and he started beating her, I think that happened during the day, and even later at night, he decided to beat her again, which led to her running outside the house, he locked the door and said she’d not come back to his house again. Fortunately/unfortunately for Hafsat, there’s this Yoruba guy in their area who lives alone, who had always liked her, he saw her and wanted to help, but didn’t take her to his place since they’re Muslims and she’s not his Muharamma, there and then, he said, he can marry her, which the people there agreed, and Hafsat, who didn’t have any option but to agree because that was her last resort, agreed. They got married at the middle of the night and he took her in. Things were rough for them, very, he didn’t have what it takes to hold a wife, but since he’s a hustler and goes for iron work, he eventually got things for them, bed, tv, and other necessities. As for her stepfather, he said he has disowned, and didn’t even allow the mom to go see her. As time goes by, Hafsat became pregnant, the husband, went to Lagos for some work as he said when the pregnancy was 4months old, since then, he doesn’t call, nor text. She was the one calling and telling him about her situation. The food he left her with finished, and anytime she calls to tell him, it’s from one story to another. Things become very bad due to her pregnancy, she had to go beg her mom, to beg her stepdad to please allow her to come back home, which he agreed but only under the condition of her not eating the food in the house, or using anything that belongs to him, he said the only thing he’d allow her in the house is to sleep, but even charging her phone, she must pay for it, and that what was happened. Her mom doesn’t do anything, she’s a full housewife, the type that are at the mercy of her husband. She had to be giving Hafsat her food, then starve sometimes, or share into two for them, without the father knowing. Time went by, Hafsat was due to give birth, her husband was nowhere to be found, he didn’t come back and even when the mom reached out to him, he shouted at her. They had to borrow some money from her uncle to take her to the hospital. The birth came with so much complications, she spent almost a week in the hospital, the bills stacked up and they couldn’t pay, her friend, Fatima who was Hafsat’s mate in some school in Abuja reached out to me, we stepped in and paid for everything. After returning home, the stepdad said, nothing from his house should be used in taking care of Hafsat or her baby, not even his buckets or gas or to boil hot water. They had to find gas to do all of that. I sent them money for foodstuff and the baby’s necessities. Again, time went by, the husband decided to come home, after so many pleas from me. Her mom, didn’t want to talk to him or see him. Her stepdad, he said the husband shouldn’t dare to come to his house. Hafsat was so confused and didn’t know what to do. The husband later came, apologized and pleaded, the step father said he’d give him Hafsat back but only if his family comes or he brings someone from his workplace. He did, and the stepdad allowed Hafsat to go, with the condition that she’d not come back to his house.
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Replying to @lilmeerahcute
Now you wont hear Bots talking about scoring cheap political score. It is well sha.
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Cancelo is very bad defensively, plus he was on yellow card. Balde should come on for Cancelo. Adeyemi for Gordon, Jesus for Rapha. And i rather sub in De Jong than Gavi
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Replying to @shariffshattima
Espart should play full 90’ Hansi cost us this match with his subs
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So we went to Parc Des Princes 4 2 Things?
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Shaky backline and not Rodri to cover up. Wtf
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Replying to @ZawiyaAlamin
My friend, it occurred fifteen years ago. I truly prepared for the occasion.
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Replying to @_bahaushee
Dey play 😂 in akaima mutuwar tsaye zakai
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Replying to @FBellorh
U can call again
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Replying to @_bahaushee
Ka godewa Allah ba namiji ne ya fadama haka ba
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Replying to @FBellorh
I no see the call ne 😂
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The Shawarma I normally buy don skyrocket from ₦5k to ₦7k. E be like say na time to return to those ₦3k shawarma wey be 90% cabbage and 10% meat. 😭💔
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Replying to @Sadeeyarh01
That was 2011, i cant anymore. Now the highest i can eat is 4-5 pcs.
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Dalla an dade 🥹🥹🤣🤣🤣 tun 2011 ne fa
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Never be ashamed of your hustle. When the money finishes and life humbles you, nobody will come to feed you. Do whatever you can, as long as it’s honest. Your pride won’t pay your bills.
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Replying to @Sadeeyarh01
Haha I remembered when we finished secondary school 2011, aka samun gasa and i ate 21 masa 😂
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Accidental Librarian 𝕏 retweeted
We all have mirrors in our houses. Nobody needs you to announce that they’ve gained or lost weight. You have no idea what someone could be going through, so please learn to keep certain observations to yourself.
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