Reducing the number of deaths by suicide in a domestic abuse context

North West, England
Joined January 2012
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Congratulations to our patron, Kevin Sinfield, on his well‑deserved knighthood. Kev has been a tireless advocate for the MND community since the diagnosis of his friend, Rob Burrow CBE, in 2019 — raising £11 million for MND charities and vital awareness. Thank you, Sir Kev 🧡
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Fed up of feeling tired all the time? Exhausted? Stressed? Mood all over the place? Hormones rampaging? Join me online for a free webinar Tuesday 5th August at 12.30pm us02web.zoom.us/webinar/regi…
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As Sandie Peggie returns to the witness stand for the final time, I’ve taken a moment to gather some final thoughts. My last update from the tribunal will be out this afternoon - but in the meantime, here is one I prepared earlier. The Case That Spoke Too Plainly🧱 I won’t be tweeting the closing submissions. There is little left to say that the tribunal has not, in one way or another, already exposed. For nearly a year I’ve followed the Peggie case - day by day, witness by witness - as a nurse of thirty years stood accused of harassment for objecting to a male colleague in the women’s changing room. She did not shout. She did not use slurs. She simply said: you are not a woman. You should not be here. For that, she was suspended. Investigated. Humiliated. And made to wait while the institution responsible for that humiliation told the public it was “balancing rights.” What emerged, over weeks of hearings and months of delay, was not a case of misconduct, but a case of institutional self-deception. One by one, managers, HR advisors, equality officers took the stand. What they revealed - unintentionally, but unmistakably - was that @nhsfife had no serious grasp of what its policies were doing to women like Sandie Peggie. No one had assessed the risks. No one had thought about menstruation, trauma, dignity, consent. The witnesses admitted as much. “We didn’t ask,” they said. “We followed guidance.” “There was no policy.” “It wasn’t our role.” That was the pattern. Not bad people; timid ones. Bureaucrats trained to prioritise reputational safety over moral courage. Time and again, they deferred upwards: to Once for Scotland, to Equality and Diversity, to how the other boards were doing it. They could not say why Peggie was suspended - only that it had seemed “safer” than not suspending her. They could not say what she’d done wrong - only that she hadn’t accepted a man in the women’s space. Her view - that sex is real and that sex matters - was not protected in practice. It was pathologised. NHS Fife could not bring itself to call it what the law now requires: a legitimate belief. And it wasn’t just the managers. The junior doctor at the heart of this, Dr. Upton, sat in the witness box and calmly described himself as a woman, entitled to strip and change beside female colleagues. He had, he told the court, taken notes on Sandie Peggie from day one. He knew she was uncomfortable. He did not leave. He stayed. And when she said “I don’t believe you belong here,” he called it a hate incident. He wasn’t asked to compromise. She was told to move wards. Covering this case has clarified something I already suspected. The erosion of women’s boundaries is not always driven by ideology. Often, it is driven by indifference - by men who want access and by organisations too cowardly to say no. The effect, of course, is the same. I’ve reported what happened. I’ve watched the language bend and buckle under the strain of unspoken truths. I’ve listened to professionals - nurses, consultants, executives - swallow their instincts because their job demands belief in something they know isn’t true; and I’ve watched what happens when one woman refuses. There is nothing exceptional about Sandie Peggie. That is precisely the point. She is what any of us might become, in any workplace, when we say aloud what everyone sees. The case has been widely reported; the spending scrutinised; the reputations preserved. What’s missing is the story that matters - the one that lives in the transcripts, in the contradictions, in the silences. That’s where the truth sits - in the record, not the narrative. This was a landmark case. Not because the law changed, but because the lie did not hold. We’ll see what the judgment says. But I already know what I’ve seen. And if you’ve followed this thread - I hope you agree. Thank you to everyone who has read, shared, and followed along. I’m extremely grateful for your company.🙏 Good luck, Sandie @nicoleepeggiee
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If you get a moment I’d be grateful if you can vote for my wife, former Mayoress of Halton, who has been nominated for an award :- merseysidewomenoftheyear.co.…
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I’ve never had a hot flush or a night sweat worth mentioning, but I did have a plan to end my life. #MentalHealth is definitely negatively impacted by the #menopause and #suiciderisk can increase - please know you are not alone, there is help x
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Thank you @itvnews for sharing Andrea & Sam’s experiences of suicide, details of @andysmanclubuk & our GM #shiningalightonsuicide campaign. @NHS_GM
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Apologies if this shocked you but I was shocked myself. Thankfully we now have Chris Packham involved. xitter.cf/chrisgpackham/status/1…
Police “try to stop an escape cow in Feltham by ramming it” — is this real?! Paging @ChrisGPackham
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Fancy a great night out whilst doing good for your community? Live music, 3 course dinner, drinks on arrival and dancing until late. Come and try our summer cocktail menu too! All proceeds to the Halton Foundation to help young people in our Borough achieve potential
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Looking to promote a positive image of your business? Want to show a commitment to your local community? We have sponsorship opportunities from as little as £55 for our charity events Drop me a note if #CSR matters to you and your business? #Halton #Runcorn #Widnes #Cheshire
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Our Summer Ball promises to be a great night with live music, cocktails, a 3 course dinner and a chance to support a fantastic cause. Tickets are now available online at KevTheMayor.info
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If you are a business based in #Halton and might be interested in sponsoring “Actually, she can!” - a conference aimed at inspiring & empowering women next February, then the Mayoress would love to chat with you. Opportunities available from as little as £55 ☺️ #Runcorn #Widnes
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Emergency #sophiefromromania has escaped
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'We are very proud of her' Former BBC correspondent Rory Cellan-Jones told #BBCBreakfast how his rescue dog #sophiefromromania went for her first walk in a park
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Alongside @The_Blue_Cross @Battersea_ @DogsTrust @HopeRescue @RSPCA_Official @ScottishSPCA @USPCA_Official @TheKennelClubUK & @PDSA_HQ, we want to see the unnecessarily short deadline extended so owners, rescue centre staff & #TeamVet can do the best for the dogs in our care. 2/2
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Please retweet, sadly some of the dogs that I have shared this week that were in council pounds have been put to sleep #UK Millie on the left has been put to sleep by the council the dog on the right, Maeve, was found abandoned, tied up on a freezing cold night, has been saved by a small rescue. She has recently had puppies and is covered in cigarette burns. They are asking for donations for her. DETAILS or DONATE 👇 facebook.com/violetspawsresc… Please contact your local registered charities and foster or adopt if you can. This is a national crisis for pets that we should be seeing in the media. Unscrupulous breeding and online sales of pets should be stopped. The government should act to stop dogs being killed in council pounds. #dogs #AdoptDontShop #animals #pets @BBCNews @itvnews @NickDixonITV @GMB @susannareid100 @EamonnHolmes
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🔺 Battling depression at 16. 🔺 Witnessing my mum be abused at 17. 🔺 My dad killed at 23. 🔺 Murder trial at 24. 🔺 Prison visits up to 32. 🔺 Addiction in my 30s. How have I survived? By reaching out for support again-and-again. You are worth more… #WorldMentalHealthDay
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If you can offer Lady the loving home she truly deserves, please apply via our website. We will accept applications outside of Wales providing you are able to travel to Carmarthenshire twice to meet her. Please RT Lady's info to help us find her a home. westwalespoundies.org.uk/dog…
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