Some years ago, one of my guys called to borrow £700, saying it was very urgent. I didn’t have the money, so I took an overdraft from Lloyds to send it to him. I told myself I’d just pay the interest, they charged £0.90 daily. He borrowed it for a month. When he sent the money back, I didn’t even tell him it was an overdraft. He just returned the £700, and I used my own money to clear the interest. So I asked, “What did you even use the money for that it was so urgent?” What he said blew my mind. He said: “I took an overdraft and didn’t want to pay interest until my next salary, so I needed £700 to avoid the charges till I got paid.” In my head, I nearly went mad. Me, I took an overdraft to help someone clear their overdraft. Truly, I am daft. 💔

Away from vouching for someone one hasn't met. Why do people especially ladies, make every violent interaction between man & woman a gender based issue? It doesn't even make sense when scrutinized. Does it mean every issue between both genders is purely cos of their genders?

OPEN LETTER TO DAVID HUNDEYIN @DavidHundeyin, I am saying this from a place of genuine concern. Nobody goes through the kind of pressure, fear, threats, and persecution you have experienced without it taking a serious toll. You have been moving from country to country. You have been under intense political pressure. You have been fighting heavy battles mostly alone. That level of stress changes people, whether they admit it or not. But in recent times, the way you have been moving online does not look like someone who is coping well. You now treat almost every event in Nigeria as if it is personally directed at you, as if you are the only one who understands what is happening. You react to disagreement as an attack. Everything is now a foreign plot even when it doesn’t point to that direction. You insult entire groups, including people you once shared the same ideology with. One moment you speak as if you alone can save Nigeria, the next moment you say the country deserves whatever happens to it. This is not strength. This is what stress, burnout, and emotional exhaustion look like when they begin to affect how someone sees the world. Let me also remind you of your own words. In 2023, you openly acknowledged the killings of Christians in Nigeria, and you even said that as an atheist, you were shouting louder than the church. Now the church and the people directly affected are shouting, and suddenly they are CIA, or America is using them to destabilise Nigeria, as if Nigeria is a stable nation before, how do you destabilise an already destabilised entity. Let me ask you plainly: were you CIA in 2023 when you said you were shouting louder than the church? Was America using you to destabilise Nigeria then? One thing I will tell you for free is this: person wey him house dey catch fire no dey ask the people rushing to help am wetin their intentions be. Them no dey care whether the people wey come help fit steal their property. They just accept help. Person wey dey drown no dey look the face of the person wey wan save am. The truth is not that people suddenly became CIA agents. The truth is that you are tired, overwhelmed, and carrying too much on your own. When someone carries that much pain and pressure for too long, it starts to affect their judgement. Nobody is dragging you. Nobody is mocking you. This is simply a concern. You have done important work, and you have taken risks most people cannot imagine. But right now, the stress is showing in your words, your reactions, your anger, and the way you interpret almost everything as a plot. Before this pressure breaks you, take a step back and breathe. You do not have to fight the whole world alone. And you do not have to destroy yourself in the process of trying to save a country that has already drained you. Seek mental health support and counsel. Everyone reaches a breaking point at some stage, especially under the kind of pressure you have lived with. Admitting you need help is not weakness. Asking for support is strength. Take your mental health seriously. You have already blocked me. So if you like call me CIA, it would honestly be an honour. But deep down, you know this message is coming from a place of truth. Thank you for your attention to this matter Peace ✌️

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