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Softie๐ retweeted
Aproko Doctor is trending after a podcast clip about his wife, Amaka Egemba, sparked serious debate online ๐ He revealed that his wife wasnโt his physical spec. ๐๐
On the podcast, the popular health influencer, Dr. Chinonso Egemba, opened up about marriage, โspec,โ and choosing character over physical appearance.
He said:
โMy wife didnโt look anything like the spec I created in my head. It was what she was saying, her thoughts, and most importantly, her heart for people. She was peace for me.โ
His wife, Amaka Egemba, popularly known as Chef Amaka, is now at the center of conversations across X.
While some people praised Aproko Doctor for valuing peace, character, and emotional connection over physical attractionโฆ
Others believe some truths should never be said publicly, especially about your spouse.
Their argument:
Yes, everyone has preferences.
Yes, not everyone ends up marrying their exact physical spec.
But publicly saying your partner wasnโt your โspecโ can leave them feeling like they were never the first choice. ๐ค
Softie๐ retweeted
Stop comparing yourself with a man.
If is how you people behave in your state, where I come from there is no such thing.
In Akwa Ibom, there is a tradition called (Ekpo nkawo) and it is very functional in my family.
If you are married traditionally and your dowry has been paid, if you sleep with another man, you will swell up, and your hair will start falling out on your head and if your husband knows about it and try to cover it up, he may d!e.
Paternity is not acceptable in Akwa Ibom if it is acceptable in Igbo land.
HeartMattaz
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"If you check every successful marriage that has lasted the test of time, you will see that the husband is a patient man"
THEY ARE ALWAYS NAGGING, SHOUTING, BEHAVING NONCHALANTLY AND RUDELY, LACKING ACCOUNTABILITY, INSULTING, BRINGING UNNECESSARY MOOD SWINGS, NOT KNOWING WHAT TO DO THAT IS RIGHT, AND INTENTIONALLY BEING STUPID WHEN IT COMES TO THEIR HUSBAND.
1. But when it comes to their bosses, they obey the rules of the job, clock in on time, speak to the boss respectfully, take accountability for failure to do their work, have patience no matter what or how the boss is talking to them, and have patience with him and will never talk back to their bosses
2. When it comes to their pastors, bishops, prophets, imams, they respect them, talk respectfully, gift them expensive gifts, bow to greet them and have patience for them.
3. They talk to their pastors, bosses, imam with respect, no nagging, they know what to do at the right time, but have a problem when it comes to their husbands.
The problem is not the MAN, the problem is the type of man a "HUSBAND" is, so he is supposed to ENDURE, TOLERATE all the rubbish behaviour thrown at him from his WIFE because he is a husband.
Learn to teach your female congregation how to be respectful and submissive in all ramifications to their husbands not telling them that their husbands must have patience to tolerate their excessive bullshittt!!!!
Rubb!sh teaching!!!!!!!!
HeartMattaz
Softie๐ retweeted
I am focused on building myself..
Even when it seems like its not moving, I am definitely not giving up.
All efforts will one day count massively So stay on the game regardless...
Softie๐ retweeted
A teacher from Bungoma has gone viral after sharing photos of how he supervises exams.
The teacher climbed onto the wooden beams above the classroom and sat there watching students as they wrote their exams.
Students kept looking up in surprise as he monitored the room from above. With the teacher watching from every angle, cheating was nearly impossible.
The photos have left many people amused online. Some are calling him the GOAT of exam invigilation, while others say his method is a bit extreme.๐ค๐ค
What do you think??
Softie๐ retweeted
One thing Canada taught me quickly was the importance of clocking in and out.
Back home in Nigeria, where I worked before relocating, we simply signed our names in a register when we resumed duty.
When I started working in Canada, I kept forgetting to clock in and out even though the app is on my phone.
Then one day it dawned on me: whatever I clock in is what I get paid for.
Since then, the first thing I do when I get to work from the car self i make sure I clock in before doing anything else. I don't want stories that touch.
Sometimes, the little workplace habits we overlook can affect your paycheque.
But back home,nobody get time to look register bcos your salary is fixed.
ยฉNurse Cynthia
Softie๐ retweeted
It's 50/50๐๐๐๐
Sometimes the spec you are looking for may not be what will be good for you.
Marriage is not a boyfriend.
HeartMattaz
Softie๐ retweeted
For 3 days now, my heart has been racing up like something was happening.
I swear I wasn't thinking about anything.
Please what could be the cause????
(Note: have gone to the hospital and the test result shows ulcer)
Softie๐ retweeted
Jennifer will be 29 years old this year.
Over the past 3 years, she has been in a toxic relationship with a 34 year old man
At the onset, the relationship was sweet but after the first six months, it became sour.
Her boyfriend beats her at the slightest provocation. Sometime, she doesn't need to do anything to get him upset.
Her friends has advised her to leave him, but she's reluctant. She's scared of starting over, and still hope he'd change.
Besides the repeated slaps and verbal abuse, he cares about her.
Will you blame her for not leaving him?
Why do some women stay with their abusers?
Softie๐ retweeted
A man - a loud & proud hypocrite.
A woman - a shameless & arrogant hypocrite.
A human - a flawed being.
We are NOTHING.
We will always
- make mistakes
- hurt others
- self-sabotage
- be jealous, etc
We can't outrun all. But few.
Learn or learn the hard way.
Softie๐ retweeted
Dear everyone,
Please follow and engage @AlexGodwin147 whose former account has issues and he hasn't been able to login.
Don't fall for any kind of scam.
His old account has him locked out of it and we must restore him back to his glory.
Follow him๐๐พ
Softie๐ retweeted
Gradually we're forgetting that these school children are still held capt!ve somewhere in the bush
Everyone has moved on, ๐ญ๐
Softie๐ retweeted
Good morning, beautiful souls! ๐
Itโs a brand new Thursday, another precious gift from God to rise, realign, and keep walking in purpose. No matter what this week has thrown at you, remember: His mercy is fresh every morning, and His strength is made perfect in your weakness.
Keep showing up with faith, one step at a time. Youโve got this! What do you hope to achieve today? Drop it belowโletโs connect our faith with yours. ๐ฅฐโค๏ธ๐ค
Softie๐ retweeted
Sadly, some men in our generation will never marry.
They already made up their mind.
Softie๐ retweeted
married people, just dey enjoy your happy family jejely...
even if you guys are not too happy, make it work...
nothing dey outside o. It's chaos and criticisms.
Softie๐ retweeted
Yes, I'm on his phone while he sleep. ๐คท๐พโโ๏ธ
I'm tired of being his little secret. ๐ฉ
This man come over, crack me raw, sleep under my A/C like he pay rent, then wake up and eat all my Cinnamon Toast Crunch. ๐
Soon as he wake up, he sneak off to my bathroom to call his girlfriend talmbout, "Yeah babe, I'm still with the bros." ๐คฆ๐พโโ๏ธ smh
His girlfriend Kiana is the girl in the 2nd picture. Somebody tell her get her man. I'm done. โ๐พ๐ญ
