a boy coming of age

Joined January 2012
My mom works at the Mission Viejo Lake and has befriended two ducks that will come up at eat out of her hand and hang with her at lunch. The male duck hurt his wing and couldn’t fly but they still ended up having babies this spring. She made a video to document this journey.
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I believe them about the WiFi
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You ever leave a social situation like hmmm not my best work
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what the kids could never understand about 9/11 is the shock and awe of a sudden “party’s over” atmosphere that slammed the door on a decade of American prosperity and introduced a toxic us vs them into our marrow that we aimed outwards for a time before tearing ourselves apart
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just heard a man order a pastry by saying "imma say what's up to this bread over here"
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i’m pregnant with laughter and you’re the father bro
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Should protestants be allowed to enjoy the Mediterranean?
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when hayao miyazaki said that true love was two people inspiring each other to live...recognizing just how hard living is, putting one foot in front of the other every day, how easy it is to lose our passion for it...... that's the real shit
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they bloom regardless
I always wonder what happens to the flowers that no one buys
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how to get forearms like Brad Pitt in money ball How to get truck like Brad Pitt in money ball How to get job like Brad Pitt in money ball
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Major cheat code for life: Be fully where your feet are. When you're at work, work. When you're with family, be with family. When you're resting, rest. Most people are physically present and mentally everywhere else.
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People don’t tweet anymore. Feels like as social media matures even further there’s an elite class of content creators and normal people don’t put out anything for fear of visibility or curating a specific vibe. I also have less to say and am less creative than I once was.
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Twitter wouldn’t let me finish my thought because I don’t pay for premium so I had to condense it. Whatever, I’ll retweet more.
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the things you are drawn to naturally matter a lot. they are clues. your job is to figure out why.
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Enjoy being while becoming
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my mom used to always tell me to be weary of short people because they are quarrelsome, the hilarious thing is she wasn’t wrong at all 😭
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It has been a privilege and an honor to giggle on the phone with you
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i lowkey fuck with how there’s no jobs and rent is infinity money and food is infinity money and fun activities are infinity money and every kind of side hustle is completely flooded and everyone’s angry and mean all the time
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My top 4 trees: 1. Weeping willow 2. Tuscan cypress 3. Lebanese cedar 4. Stone pine honourable mentions: Olive tree Oriental Arborvitae
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Work. Work. Work. Stay hydrated. Go to the dentist. 10,000 steps. “What’s for dinner?” Insurance. Drink water. Pay a bill. Pay a bill. Smile. Credit Score. Check engine light. Go get gas. ALLERGIES! TAXES! STUDENT LOANS! Phone storage full. Email. Email. Apple $12.99. Apple $9.99. Subscriptions. Subscription. Overdraft. Laundry. Fold. Text. Text. Text. Clean the house. “I haven’t seen you in a while.” Doctors appoinment. Hair appoinment. Nail appointment. RENT. WAR! GOVERNMENT! POLITICS! THE PRESIDENT!!
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There's a physicist at Stanford named Safi Bahcall who modeled this exact principle and the math is wild. He calls it "phase transitions in human networks." When you're stationary, your probability of a lucky event is limited to your existing surface area: the people you already know, the places you already go, the ideas you've already been exposed to. Your opportunity window is fixed. When you move, your collision rate with new nodes in a network increases nonlinearly. Double your movement (new conversations, new cities, new projects) and your probability of a serendipitous encounter doesn't double. It roughly quadruples. Because each new node connects you to their entire network, not just to them. Richard Wiseman ran a 10-year study at the University of Hertfordshire tracking self-described "lucky" and "unlucky" people. The single biggest differentiator wasn't IQ, education, or family money. Lucky people scored significantly higher on one trait: openness to experience. They talked to strangers more, varied their routines more, and said yes to invitations at nearly twice the rate. The "unlucky" group followed the same routes, ate at the same restaurants, and talked to the same 5 people. Their networks were closed loops. No new inputs, no new collisions. Luck isn't random. Luck is surface area. And surface area is a function of movement. The lobster emoji is doing more work than most people realize. Lobsters grow by shedding their shell when it gets too tight. The growth requires a period of total vulnerability. No protection, no armor, soft body exposed to the ocean. That's the cost of movement nobody posts about. You have to be uncomfortable first. The new shell only hardens after you've already moved.
a moving man will meet his luck 🥀
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