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I'm giving away 25 copies of #VIBE. To enter, repost and comment by October 13. adamgrant.net/vibe
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Cris Zollo retweeted
When men have daughters, they become more supportive of women. Data on every worker in Denmark over 25 years: After male bosses welcome their first daughter, they're 2.9% more likely to hire qualified women—and pay them 4.4% more—without any cost to firm performance. But we shouldn't have to wait for men to have girls before they become feminists. It's time to replace "As a father..." with "As a human being..."
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Cris Zollo retweeted
Generosity is not about fulfilling every request. It’s about giving what we can. Evidence: People appreciate receiving partial help more than we realize. Regardless of the result, they value the gesture of care. Kindness is defined by the effort, not only the impact.
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Cris Zollo retweeted
The activity you enjoy most is not your calling. It's your hobby. Careers aren't built solely on passion—they depend on making a meaningful contribution. Doing what you love is a luxury. Finding a purpose is a necessity.
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In the long run, the best way to curb cheating isn't proctoring essays and oral exams. It's developing a moral compass. The heart of integrity is recognizing that the ends don’t justify the means. What we achieve defines our success. How we achieve it determines our character. nytimes.com/2026/08/26/opini…
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We squander too much of our free time feeling guilty that we’re not working. In 1 of every 7 moments of fun and relaxation, people feel bad that they're not being “productive”—robbing themselves of joy and rejuvenation. Leisure is not a bug. It’s a feature of a good life.
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Equity is top of mind in the fields of #ImpSci. People have been asking us how we suggest they go beyond performative acts that address equity, and what are concrete ways to weave equity into the fabric of what they do. Read our thoughts on this: thecenterforimplementation.c…
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We don't need unwavering confidence to take action. We merely need to doubt our doubts. When people are randomly assigned to question their hesitations, they become more committed to pursuing their goals. A key to tenacity is refusing to treat feelings of insecurity as facts.
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We don't just feel better during vacations. Our moods elevate in advance too. Evidence: People aren't always happier after a holiday, but they do feel happier beforehand. It gives them something to look forward to. Anticipated joy is a reliable source of happiness.
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“Don’t ask what the world needs. Ask what makes you come alive and go do that, because what the world needs is more people who have come alive.” —Howard Thurman buff.ly/fu82V8y
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Dealing with difficult people may be hazardous to your health. Data: Each additional "hassler" in your network predicts 1.5% faster biological aging—and worse health a year later. Non-spouse family hasslers are the most problematic. Some ties aren't worth the toll they take.
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My fsvorite quote comes from the Talmud: "We don't see things as they are- we see things as we are".
One lesson from decades as a marriage counselor: We instinctively help the people we love the way we help ourselves. The advice we give is often our own coping style in disguise. The real task isn’t to make your partner cope your way. It’s to recognize the love behind their effort, then help each other learn what actually feels supportive to the other person.
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New DSMs have only 1 purpose: Publishing profits for American Psychiatric Association. Every new DSM (including one I did) caused more harm than good. Experts hype benefits of pet ideas/Ignore unintended bad consequences. Results: Overdiagnosis/Overtreatment/Patient suffering.
The next iteration of the DSM—now to be known as the Diagnostic and Scientific Manual of Mental Disorders—will strive to be a truly living document that captures more holistically the clinical reality of patients who seek mental health care. 🔗👇
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Cris Zollo retweeted
Authenticity is not about saying whatever pops into your head. It's about sharing what reflects who you want to be. Healthy self-expression doesn't mean no filter. It involves weighing whether your current thoughts and emotions are aligned with your lasting values.
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Cris Zollo retweeted
The internet doesn't bring out the worst in people. It makes the worst people more visible. Across all 30 countries studied, those who are nasty in online political discussions are nasty in real life, too. They seek status through hostility. Don't feed the hand that bites you.
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“Hope” is something we should think about every time we embark on change: Part 2. The comments on my last post about hope being grounded in operational reality (from a paper by Alyson Meister, Nele Dael & David Bach), from across multiple social channels, were outstanding. Sadly I only have space for some of them. Rory van der Merwe shared a 2025 Gallup poll that reframes the discussion. Hope isn't a "soft" add-on. Asked what they want most from leaders, followers put hope top at 56%, ahead of trust (33%), care & compassion (7%), & certainty (4%). Five themes stood out from the comments: 1) Hope requires infrastructure, not just intent. Commenters rejected the idea that hope can be "willed" into existence. Jonathan Sunkersing called "inflated hope" a systemic risk in primary care, where grand narratives substitute for diagnosis & resources. Paula Beattie noted teams with focus, agency & infrastructure can achieve a lot quickly, but multi-team change falters without proper leadership & structure. Rebecca Blackwood added a governance angle: mobilising hope is structurally impossible when a board withholds permission for leaders to be wrong or take risks. 2) Small steps & agency build durable hope. Richard Perry argued anticipation-driven hope depletes like a finite reserve, while small, real, felt results build confidence that's self-renewing. Lisa Evans offered a three-part formula: team, facts, small joint steps. Chris Cooper added that strategy without a credible "how" is empty, pointing to the power of Plan-Do-Check-Adjust. 3) Hope is co-created in relationships, earned incrementally. John-Paul Crofton-Biwer described hope as quick to spark, but earned through repeated, consistent action, and lost the moment that consistency breaks. Christina Jones & Søren Wieck Mellemgaard stressed credibility comes from naming hard truths & visible follow-through, not inspiring language. Kenny Ajayi noted hope starts with honest diagnosis, often overlooked when leaders rush to paint a vision. Amos Y. added it also needs a visible path forward. 4) Hope as constant discipline, not crisis response. Barbara Perry argued hope should be a daily companion, not something pulled out only during disruption. Victoria Hewitt shared a moving account of using stabilising & mobilising hope with a small team in a dysfunctional system. Noel Hatch described how his team's stabilising rituals, like weekly spotlights on less-visible teams, evolved into mobilising hope. 5) Broader & dissenting voices. Tatu Piirainen linked credible hope to how well an organisation's value-creation logic fits its environment. Douglas Anweiler flagged the risk of treating hope as a management tool rather than daily practice. Jack Ricchiuto distinguished "having hope" from "being hope". Kathryn L. Goetzke connected hope science to SDG progress & mental health outcomes. Together, the comments reinforce the article's core claim: hope is constructed through experience, not declared through rhetoric. We can't "message" our way to hope, we have to demonstrate it.
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Why are #psychotherapy rates exploding? Its not people getting sicker- rather our world is much crazier/more stressful to live in. Psychotherapy helps individuals, but cant cure society- we need better policies/much saner politicians. Great piece: nytimes.com/2026/07/05/opini…
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“Hope” is something we should think about every time we embark on change in organisations and systems. A new @HarvardBiz article by Alyson Meister, Nele Dael and David Bach (“For Hope to Inspire, It Has to Be Grounded in Organizational Reality”) provides insight for everyone leading change, especially in health and care. Our sector is saturated with aspiration-heavy narratives: “transformation,” “integration,” “prevention,” “AI-enabled futures” etc, etc. But the lived experience for many colleagues is different: constraint-heavy, change overload, fatigue, rising demand. Having a sense of hope drives change, but the authors say we need to think about two factors. Both of them contribute to hope but can lead to very different outcomes: - Aspiration (the future people are invited to work toward) - Credibility (how far that future aligns with the reality people feel). They set out four forms of hope based on these factors (see the graphic). Often we see “Inflated hope” (high aspiration, low credibility). Leaders promise transformation without the clarity or resources to deliver it and change (and trust) fizzles out. The two kinds of hope we should make the most of are: -“Stabilising hope” (low aspiration, high credibility), particularly in times of high disruption and uncertainty, where we focus on morale, psychological safety and what we can achieve this week. - “Mobilising hope” (high aspiration, high credibility). Needed greatly in our systems now: a compelling vision matched by robust diagnosis, clear pathways towards the future and visible follow‑through. It means people can see how their actions today build tomorrow’s better health and care system. The most important idea I take from this article is not to “be hopeful,” but that hope is constructed through experience, not declared through rhetoric. Credibility is the currency of change. People are constantly assessing: “Does this make sense given what I know to be true?” In complex systems like health and care, our colleagues are highly attuned to misalignment. We can’t “message” our way to hope, we have to demonstrate it. Three things this means in practice: 1) Ground the present: Our colleagues don’t need protecting from reality. They need help making sense of it. Naming constraints (“we don’t yet have the workforce”) actually increases trust. 2) Calibrate aspiration: Big visions matter, but timing matters more. Often the work is: stabilise today, improve tomorrow, transform over time. 3) Make pathways towards the future visible: If people can’t see what they can do differently on Monday morning, how that links to outcomes and how leaders will respond when things don’t go to plan, then hope never converts into action. For change leaders, this is much more than a communication skill: it’s a relational and behavioural practice. It’s built through consistency, integrity and visible follow-through. People don’t need leaders who promise a better future; they need leaders who help them see how they can build it from where they are. The article: hbr.org/2026/06/for-hope-to-….
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Cris Zollo retweeted
Sycophantic AI fuels overconfidence and polarization. Data: After chatbots present one-sided facts, people become more certain and extreme on guns, abortion, and immigration. They also see agreeable AI as less biased. Critical thinking depends on being challenged, not affirmed.
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The smarter women are, the more hostility they face. In the U.S. & China, the higher women’s IQs, the less they're liked—and the more they’re undermined by coworkers. Men pay no price for being bright. It's long past time to recognize female intellect as an asset, not a threat.
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