Remove that Nigerian parents and put Nigerian elders. Everyone will sit and watch an older person treat you like trash, the best they will do is to advise you the victim to ignore them because they are older. But the minute you voice out or retaliate, the issue automatically stops being about them abusing you but about how you are not well trained because how dare you not continue coddling them? I will forever be a mannerless child if this is your definition of respect and good home training. Respect is given to whom respect is due

This thing they do in some churches where a member is meant to sit at the back of the church, give their offerings after everyone else is done, speak to no member, literally excommunicate them, why do people tolerate it and then come out to cry? You sat down and endured such humiliation because you got pregnant out of wedlock, nobody forced you to come to church, and then turn around to cry because the church is wicked. If you excommunicate me today, I go start the church nearest to you tomorrow.