You don’t see White, Asian, Hispanic, Indian, or other women publicly dragging their own men to the extent we see Black women dragging Black men, and honestly, it’s alarming. Then y’all get mad as hell when Black celebrities and athletes date outside the race, but refuse to put the personal bullshit aside long enough to ask WHY some of them might be doing it.

Black men are expected to be providers, protectors, emotionally bulletproof, sexually confident, financially successful, physically strong, & mentally unbothered. & the minute one of them admits he’s tired, hurt, insecure, lonely, or simply wants to be loved without having to perform some version of masculinity first, suddenly it’s “black men are hard to love”.