If Pastor Bolaji is being blamed for not teaching his congregation properly, please visit churches where these things are taught regularly during midweek and Sunday services. Then speak to adult members of those churches about the same topic. You may be surprised to hear the same reasoning expressed in that clip. This goes beyond Pastor Bolaji, his church or any denomination. It is widespread, and the churches are hardly the only places where these attitudes exist. A pastor can devote years to teaching, counselling, correcting misconceptions and explaining the same principles repeatedly. None of that guarantees that every adult listening will understand, accept or practise what is taught. At some point, the responsibility for what a person believes, says and does must rest with that person. How long are we going to hold pastors responsible for the reasoning of adults who have parents, personal experiences and minds of their own? These attitudes are widespread and deeply entrenched. Blaming one pastor will neither explain them nor address them.