Linda & Charlie Bloom are relationships experts, workshop leaders, and authors of 101 Things I Wish I Knew When I Got Married & Secrets of Great Marriages.
Santa Cruz, CA
Joined February 2010
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Is it unhealthy to fight in a relationship? youtu.be/sv8Z9CcTOIs?si=fOXO… Discussion or debate can be passionate and intense, yet is healthy and valuable.
Contempt poisons, respect enlivens youtu.be/Arn7D1S68dI?si=rqz7… Contempt shows that we do not respect our partner. Our partner feels it even if we don't speak it aloud and it's painful to both parties.
youtu.be/h_1_nRjCm-o Sometimes people go to a counselor expecting the therapist to do their work for them. This is NOT a true story. If it were true, it would be highly unethical.
youtu.be/wV-iGfDJyEk?si=Wd4C… Rather than blame ourselves or our partner when our relationship is challenging, we can cut ourselves some slack while we are learning. We can, in time, get to the other side. It's the most important work we'll ever do and it is amazingly rewarding.
Foundation for Trust youtu.be/W863s9wlrbo?si=3u35… One of the most efficient ways of building trust is to make agreements and really keep them. What are the 10-Commandments that guide your relationship?
Emotional Intimacy is an Aphrodisiac
youtu.be/z5lMhsrqGis?si=jKr8… It's a wise choice to make a contract with your partner to clear out the incompletions that clog up the channel between you. Then, you can enjoy a higher level of trust, ease, play, and more great sex!
Linda and Charlie Bloom Interview on The Mental Health Toolbox youtu.be/0SvcpGVEa2s?si=v74k… via @YouTube Charlie and Linda Bloom talk with host Patrick Martin about relationships and communication.
Another fantastic interview! This time with Jim Bramsom on his podcast Shrinks Rap. youtu.be/9GWknZxwbeU?si=MCLr… via @YouTube
