this is a woman who knows she won't get yelled at for closing his laptop, won't be scolded for interrupting him, won't be ignored, her emotions are prioritized, she feels safe, cared for, loved, and he's treated her like this since the beginning it takes two to have this. you don't just "marry" a romantic woman, you show her how much you love her every single day and this dynamic will last forever. otherwise you lose her