It’s officially the first day of fall. 🍂

Fall begins today across the Northern Hemisphere. 🍂

I'm sorry but it's kinda hilarious to think that Jesus's maleness is *more important* than his humanness. It's okay to represent him as an animal, not a son of Adam, not found in human likeness, as long as that creature has a penis! I mean come on

Taylor Swift shows off her $1 million diamond ring while yelling “that’s my husband” at Travis Kelce during NFL game.

Unpopular biblical opinion: Jezebel was a better WIFE than Abigail. Before you start typing “HERESY!”—open your Bible. When the whole world turned against the two husbands, Jezebel stood by her husband and fought for him, Abigail abandoned her husband, she even sold him out. As a man, you should have the like of Jezebel as a wife instead of Abigail if you want a submissive and supportive wife. Abigail was not a submissive wife, stubborn and unruly. Jezebel was very submissive, calm and submissive to authority. While Abigail joined an outsider to fight her husband, going behind her husband's back to give his enemies food, Jezebel picked up her husband's battle. Nabal was still alive when Abigail was "flirting" with David, another person's husband—that was not a good wife. God abeg😭 She gathered crowd in the forest and was bad-mouthing her husband before them, She practically told David, “Don't mind my husband. He's a fool. His name is Nabal, and folly is with him.” 1 Samuel 25:25 In otherword, “Small sense no de that man body, no mind am abeg." Public humiliation. She didn't allow them to properly bury her husband before she married the man that kllled her husband. Omo! Such a woman shouldn't be a model to our Christian sisters. Jezebel saw her husband disturbed and she also became disturbed. She told her husband when he was having sleepless night, "Who is disturbing you? Don't worry my love, sleep, I will take up the fight myself." The next day, she solved the problem so her husband could have peace of mind. Jezebel was a good wife but a terrible human. Abigail was a good human but a terrible wife. Jezebel was the type that could stand by her husband regardless the situation Abigail was the type that could sell her husband to a more influential buyer. I'll recommend Jezebel for marriage over Abigail.

This is why as a divorce lawyer, I constantly shout; COHABIT. I didn’t say go and do weekend or one week together in a hotel. Live with that man for at least 6months, a year or more together. Face life issues together. One person should be sick and hospitalized. Know how this person looks in the morning on a random Wednesday. Know if this person washes plates at night after eating or keeps it to the next morning and if you can tolerate this. Know if this person presses toothpaste from the middle or from under. Be with this person when something goes wrong and see if you can stand their reaction. Know if this person prefers soup in a bowl different from swallow or eats them together (on dates the person won’t be comfortable to do this but at home, the masks come off). Know what she looks like without all the makeup, false lashes, wigs and nails. See her at her natural state; natural hair, no nails, no makeup and find out whether she’s still the most beautiful woman to you. See him when money is hard and he can’t take you and your friends to weekly dinner and whether it’s him you love or his money. But you people will date one month, go on few dates to eat pasta and snap cute pictures, your friends will do “aww”, next thing you’re married. Less than a year later you’re calling to ask me “Barr please can we get divorced even though we haven’t been married up to a year?, I never knew he was like this”. Forget pleasing society, know who you want to marry by living with them before you marry. A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.

Footage from the 1982 documentary Asante Market Women, showing Asante marriage culture where some men had five or six wives and rotated nights among them, while the women openly opposed sharing their husbands.

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