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It often feels easier to look after others for those that didn’t have their needs met.
You learned to prioritize the needs of others, giving them the thing you longed for most.
Fawners may find themselves doubting their own experience.
This isn’t because their experience isn’t true but because they’ve spent a lifetime defaulting to the reality of others, because it felt safer.
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I love that we grow so much of our own food.
Today I made a small batch of horseradish. This plant was transplanted from my grandparents farm. The love & use of plants is generational in my family.
It tastes delicious & smelling this is also a great way to clear your sinuses!
Shame often creates this belief that we aren’t worthy, we find ourselves trying to live between two desires; “See me” but “Don’t see me too much”
Compassion and curiosity open the door to flow and ease.
Judgment and shame on the other hand often prevent them.
When don’t allow kids to be uncomfortable & constantly try to ease their discomfort we aren’t helping them.
We’re taking away an opportunity to sit with discomfort, feel it & work through it. That skill will help them in the future, beyond this moment of uncomfortable feelings.
When your feelings are dismissed instead of validated you begin to question yourself.
Not everyone has the capacity to hold space for your feelings, that’s on them, not you.
Most addictions are hand to mouth-the same action a baby does to suck their thumb.
It’s a way to soothe the nervous system.
Feeling lonely in a group of people hits differently than being alone.
Lonely with others hits the feeling of not belonging. As humans we are drawn to connection & a deep desire to belong.
When a child isn’t believed about abuse, they don’t question the disbelief, they begin to question themselves.




