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And while you’re here, ANY parent who suspects their child is identifying as trans should go to AffirmingReality.com and schedule a free consultation with me and @GabsClark5.
PLEASE DO NOT WAIT. That’s one of the biggest mistakes we see parents make. The earlier you intervene with our coaching methods, the smoother the desistance process is.
Please join the Affirming Reality team @GabsClark5 and @notaproviderMD to discuss the dangers parents face when confronting the gender cult.
Affirming Reality gives people practical solutions to help parents rescue their children. Lots of families are disconnected because parents forgot to teach their children these practical basics of life.
Here, Dr. Nikki explains:
It needs to be said. A lot of the Gen X and older are complaining, but it’s obvious that many of you made some mistakes with your kids. Otherwise, we wouldn’t be debating lunch and budget choices with Zoomers. That’s okay. All parents make mistakes. They can be fixed.
So listen up. Teach your children how to cook. Teach them how to shop and meal plan on a budget. Show them how to be efficient in the kitchen for prep and clean up.
The way to do that is not to lecture them and complain how awful they are at it. You need to show them. Take them shopping with you and have them in the kitchen with you. Not just once. Multiple times.
Discuss your meals for the entire week. Let them pick out at least one that they will help cook. Discuss the ingredients you will need and put them on a list.
Side note: we use an app called OurGroceries. The whole family can see the list. You can categorize to your heart’s desire. If someone purchases an item and crosses it off, everyone can see.
Anyway, back to business. Don’t order from a delivery service. Go to an actual store together. Pick out the ingredients together. Talk to them about why you shop where you shop at the time of day and on the particular day you shop. Maybe it’s Tuesday or Wednesday when the fresh produce is stocked or towards the end of the week when produce and meat will go on sale.
Discuss your food selection and why you pick the brand you pick. Show them which produce looks healthy, which ones you want to buy unripe, which meat portions to select. Talk about what you buy in bulk for long-term use. Then go home, and prep the meal together. Share the cleaning up,too.
Do this often. Pick out recipes you like. Try to replicate your favorite restaurant meals. Teach them how to flavor to their senses. Get creative and make this enjoyable. You’ll make some great memories, and your kid won’t be on Twitter complaining about $28 lunches.
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Special Preview #15:
DAP 5, Part Three
Guided Growth Parenting is the term we use for our style of parenting. We explain it in this third part of DAP 5, and it is Step 12 of the Affirming Reality program.
Chapter Ten of the Affirming Reality book is DAP 5: Recovery and Maintenance.
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Special Preview #12 from the upcoming Affirming Reality book explains Desistance Action Phase 5(DAP5) Part1:
REINTEGRATION
Learn how to reintegrate your child into life with peers after extraction, detoxification, and desistance.
Special Preview #14 from the upcoming Affirming Reality book explains Desistance Action Phase 5(DAP5) Part2:
Desistance is complete, but it's crucial to help your child recogonize indoctrination red flags, guard against FOMO, and make wise choices about friendships.
Special Preview #14 from the upcoming Affirming Reality book explains Desistance Action Phase 5(DAP5) Part2:
Desistance is complete, but it's crucial to help your child recogonize indoctrination red flags, guard against FOMO, and make wise choices about friendships.
DAP 5 is divided into three remaining steps. This special preview draft details the second step, indoctrination red flags.
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Special Preview #12 from the upcoming Affirming Reality book explains Desistance Action Phase 5(DAP5) Part1:
REINTEGRATION
Learn how to reintegrate your child into life with peers after extraction, detoxification, and desistance.
DAP 5 is divided into three remaining steps. This special preview draft details the first step, reintegration.
open.substack.com/pub/affirm…
We teach people to engage in rituals and traditions daily. Teaching our kids about meal planning, grocery shopping, and cooking are all part of our jobs as parents. It’s all a part of
Affirming Reality.
Early March is a perfect time to start the @AffirmReal Program.
PARENTS OF MIDDLE SCHOOLERS!
This is for you!
Spring offers the best chance for teens/tweens to successfully desist. Our program helps parents guide their children away from the gender cult.
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Getting on the path now prepares you for the most challenging parts of the program by laying the groundwork for bond-building that coincides with the seasons and vacation times.
To learn more about the program visit our Substack.
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Special Preview #12 from the upcoming Affirming Reality book explains the signs of desistance.
There are signs of desistance, just like there are signs of newly adopted sex rejection and social transition.
This chapter shows you what that might look like for your child.
There are only two additional chapters planned for our book. One is the last DAP, but that chapter still needs quite a bit of work before we’re comfortable publishing any draft. Therefore, we decided to publish the last remaining chapter this week.
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Special Preview #11 from the upcoming Affirming Reality book explains Desistance Action Phase 4 (DAP4):
Additional Unmet Needs
After your child has desisted, you can address the other unmet needs and comorbid problems in your family. In this draft of our book, we give guidance on when to seek professional help and how to do that safely.



















