A married man is angry with his wife and wants to make a decision. Three years ago, he was in a financial mess and in debt due to some failed business deals. He had to sell their only car to pay off some of the debt. When his brothers-in-law got to know about his ordeals, they were not happy with the situation. So they rallied to support him and bought another car for him. He decided to set aside the business and started driving for Bolt/Uber with the car. Through it, he was able to clear his debt and continued providing for his family. They have two children. Last Sunday, he was having a quarrel with his wife over an undisclosed issue. Then he said, "I am the head of this home. I am grateful to God that I have good in-laws too, but I will not watch you disrespect me. I provide for you and the children the best I can." Then his wife responded in a very rude way: "Who would you have become if not for my brothers? Don't you also have brothers? What did they do for you?" He said that he felt so cold after hearing what his wife said to him and that he now feels sudden hatred toward her. He doesn't want to report her to her brothers, but he is no longer seeing his wife the same way. He said that he cried that Sunday night because after she said that, he just left the house for a bar, where he cried in silence. What is still painful to him is that his wife has still not apologized for what she said, and is going about her business like she did nothing. He wants to quietly walk away from the marriage and go start his life somewhere else. He will leave the car with her and abandon them to their fate. He doesn't feel the need to keep pushing for his family anymore because his wife has killed the man in him. What would you advise him to do? AJD.