Five forms of intelligence: 1. Spot the pattern. 2. Hope without illusions. 3. Notice without reacting. 4. Leave without resentment. 5. Question what you know.

you will win but it will change you

normalize saying “unfortunately you’re no longer a safe person for me and I refuse to continually sacrifice my nervous system to make you feel comfortable”

my mom once told me “accountability will always feel like an attack when you are not ready to acknowledge how your behavior harms others” and that shit is real.

I believe in re-reading and re-watching your favourite books and movies at different stages of your life. the plot never changes, but your perspective does.

your lack of personal purpose is causing your romantic obsessions btw

Knowing how to hold a conversation is an underrated skill

Pattern recognition will save you from a lot of stress.

Nobodyyyyyy is more stressed than a man who has seen his potential and knows he is not living up to it.

You become dangerous when you no longer need anyone.

I AM READY

Choose people that choose you. The end.

Be patient

normalize not telling anyone anything.

3 months from now you will be in a completely different space, mentally, spiritually, and financially.

You have yourself..

i’m not interested in one sided relationships or friendships.

Take your financial life seriously. Money is a defense to a lot of challenges.

if they are fine without u then be fine without them too. it’s that simple.

Maturity is when you have the power to destroy someone who did you wrong, but you just breathe, walk away and let life take care of them.